Sexy list! I just had to sexy say that. I couldn't sexy understand some of it. But Sex!

Sexy unfunny blogger.

I'm sexy! w00t!!!111!!!!

I'm going as a troll.

I'll just sling insults without any URL or actual identity to back it up. What's not sexy about that?

Melissalion, don't you and your bestie Kiala, already go as trolls quite often?

You might try going as the constantly barfing and giggling "Who Me?" with a faux personae of cloying sweetness. Or what about "Fora Lorn", a lost rapidly approaching middle aged girl fixated on her boobies, with writer's block, still using a 17 year old's voice, while wandering the cold dark streets co-opting wherever she can, in search of something new to say, and Kiala could be your pet monkey.

now, is a "gayfag" like a double-negative? does that mean they're straight? or does it reinforce, and make them REALLY homosexual?

not that there's anything wrong with that.

i think you should go as "fine china," kiala.

Okay MaryMel, that was really funny. Well played, lady.

We have a stalker! We've made it Melissa!

Hey Kiala. With all the drinking lately which you're not suppose to do because of your med routine....like whoa you've bloated big time girl, so why don't you just go as Mrs.Doughy Losingit or what about Chocolate Lover? Forget sexy anything, that's not happening.

Mrs. Doughy Losing It! HA!

I think calling out a blogger on their opinions is perfectly fine. But what's with the personal digs? And especially the digs on appearance and accusing this blogger of an eating disorder etc. This is a feminist blog, in case you didn't notice. And MaryMel and Lauren, you should be ashamed of yourselves. It's pathetic when anyone cuts down another person. It's especially pathetic when it's a woman cutting down another woman. This is why women have trouble getting promoted in the workplace, why eating disorders are rampant amongst our sex, and why, in general, women have a hell of a time getting ahead. Because we cut each other down. Constantly. So thanks for being another cog in the chauvinist, misogynist machine, ladies.

Your friend Kiala does a pretty darn good job of feeding the chauvinistic misogyny machine, all by herself. When she's not self-promoting like a gibbering idiot, she lives to toss grenades, but is a big cry baby when the shoe is on the other foot. You might want to study up on your feminism lessons. There is nothing feminist about enabling a friend's self destructive behavior. By her own admission, she drinks and drinks and drinks too much, and what do you want to bet its contra-indicitive. Get a clue.

@Lauren

Feminist scholarship and discourse aside, clearly you're e-intervention is well-intentioned, but how is this forum the time and place for that?

If you want to disagree with the post, subject-matter, conclusions, etc. more power to you, but you've definitely crossed the line. Relatively anonymous posts about a person's life-choices, med routine, and gibbering (like an idiot, or otherwise) are cowardly, childish, and downright mean.

And don't look now, but it looks like you're relishing in the grenade tossing yourself.

Oh I see. So you're trying to be helpful by calling someone a gibbering, bloated alcoholic. That's really constructive.

And how are YOU being constructive Nathalie? She IS gibbering and bloated. Kiala puts it out there FREQUENTLY that she's either hung over or just threw up or drank too much. It was YOU Nathalie who wrote Kiala is an alcoholic (it wasn't me), and she is very public about her drinking habits and the meds she takes, and her weight gain, and please...her writing sucks more and more and is disjointed more and more. Being the Feminist that you wish you were Nathalie, get over being so inflamed with the bloated gibbering description of someone who in actuality IS bloated and gibbering, and get into gear to do something helpful. Obviously none of the rest of her friends are.

Give it a rest Jake. Do you have any idea what this site is about? You might want to find a Stay at Home Daddy blog where you can try and tell people about the criteria for crossing the line or not, and get your groove on with trying to control that site, setting up your rules and all... "Feminist scholarship and discourse aside".

Let's try to stay on topic guys.

By the looks of it kiala you don't seem to get many comments when you suggest people "stay on topic". It might be smarter to let people be free with their comments, like especially on a snarky site....I mean. What are you afraid of? Maybe your posts just aren't interesting enough to generate comments without going off topic. Anyway, good luck "staying on topic" and all.

Hmmm, is something going on here?